It's nice to feel feminine energy when she ’s staying over at yours.

Or even when dealing with them in the short term, as you re-ignite your inner child.

But as you age, you become more serious, "boring" and regimented.

You also become more sure of yourself.

Inviting someone into your life who will regularly test you will eventually become tiring and drain your energy away from more productive endeavours.

Putting her back in her place, which was exciting in the beginning with some make-up sex afterwards, will turn into a chore because there is so much bandwidth one can have.

You also know yourself better and have filtered out the people who did not gel with you.

But we hear people say, "Hold masculine frame", "it is female nature".

You then ask yourself: "Is something wrong with me?"

NO.

Over the long term, the nonsense you will have to deal with:

She is giving you the cold shoulder because you frustrated her.

She is nagging and complaining because you said no.

The shit tests to make sure her hypergamy is fulfilled.

Other games she plays to see if you will still be able to walk away.

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Considering you have already invested money, energy, attention, and time in the relationship, cutting away your emotional investment midway through can be taxing.

"Why am I spending time with someone who gains an emotional benefit by you being fine, cutting her out in an instant?"

All of these are challenges to you as an individual.

Why would you accept living with someone with such traits when you left out former friends who didn't vibe with you?

Not discounting your authority could be undermined by her friend group and society, which are telling her she is right, regardless of her current feelings.

If you are family-oriented, the juice is worth the squeeze, and god gives his toughest challenges to his strongest soldiers.

Ensure that her "female nature" is constrained by her close environment, family background, and education.

This is not to say don't have a long-term relationship with a woman, but you should not lowkey validate shit behaviour because she is a woman.
The question you have to ask yourself is, what do you want from a relationship? And what is the scope of what you will tolerate?

Then, it is about mitigating as much of the risk as possible by addressing the external variables that will define her behaviour, to minimise as much BS as possible.

You may not want to hear it, but you are not as responsible for it as some may want to make it sound. You represent a small portion of how she will be predisposed towards you, as she is a product of her environment, upbringing, and life story.

All you can do is choose well, understand the risk factors, and address the nonsense immediately.

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