Through this Text Exchange, I will show you how to change the dynamic to your favour with a girl who will need a certain degree of masculinity for her to feel she can trust you.

I only found out after speaking with her on the phone that she was doing OF and earning five figures a month.

I would typically not go through the hassle, but on this day, I was in a good mood and she was hot, so that helped.

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Here, I could already tell she was intrigued by the profile prompt, “Dating me feels like… A Comedown,” so I played along, not being defensive about it; she liked me for a reason. Own it.

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She self-deprecates, which is a good sign. Instead of reassuring her like most guys would, I confirmed what she said - communicating that I am not here to validate her, but it also served as a good way to keep it light-hearted.

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After the Andrew Tate reference she made and how I am hunting for young, impressionable girls, I decided to go with it, not fighting or defending myself against it, but rather making it mine, confirming I have a webcam site (I don’t). Still, for the fun of it, I decided to go with that narrative. There is often a reason why they bring up the subject; you may not always know it now, but you will understand later.

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So far, the conversation has been her trying to denigrate “what I do” by showing false indignation. Little did I know, she was on a webcam site herself, indirectly vetting how comfortable I would be with her job and trying to find out if I was looking for something serious. As you can see, I tripled and quadrupled down on my “profession”. When you don’t know what to know, keep going forward, at the very least for the fun of it.

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The fact that she remains in the conversation despite what she says shows she is interested. Remember, the medium is the message. Here, instead of trying to change her mind, agree with her; otherwise, it will raise her guard and show that you are outcome-dependent, when you are just doing a mutual fact-finder. She is on Hinge; it does not matter what she says. The part about the best friend was a funny coincidence, and my agreeing with her worldview, while not angling for anything, but simply stating what I seek, was my way of saying we are more alike than you think, in an indirect way. A hot woman always wants to be valued for her brains.

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Here she is trying to say I am gay because I am not sucking up to her to which I playfully make fun of what she says, and I also deny the obvious which is we were both flirting despite the disagreements we were having on the surface.

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She is trying to play hard to get and say I will never get her, and I take the opportunity to give her a bit of shit while giving her an opportunity window.

“Believe me when I say this” = translation = The opposite of what she says.

Again, with reframing, you agree with what she says and you turn it to your advantage. By bending her over and saying to her I won’t even see her face I doubled down on what she says, showing her that her beauty does not intimidate me. Whilst taking the piss.

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Here she is testing further and not complying, but I go along with what she is saying by agreeing and amplifying, all of this is part of the light banter and she wants to take me off center, and by taking the piss, I am showing that I really don’t care what she says.

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Here she is, trying hard not to say she wants me by saying how much she dislikes me, despite being entertained by the conversation, and how I was just talking shit.

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Here I decide to switch threads and tell her more nicely she is as bitchy and argumentative as a solicitor through assuming her, and sarcastically praising her for it.

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Here, she finally decides to give away a bit more, saying she can change for me, which I sarcastically approve of and acknowledge. However, I am showing signs that I am getting tired of the back and forth, and she presents me with the last hurdle as a final test.

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Here I give her two options, either she behaves or she can be my bitch. We agreed on the date and gave the number.

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It was a fun exchange, and such interactions are becoming increasingly rare on apps these days, as many women lack practical communication skills.Girl Game at its finest.